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April 2022

We talked about whether we loved each other but there was no definitive answer from either one of us

We talked about whether we loved each other but there was no definitive answer from either one of us

Aside from these areas, things were great. I felt really at ease with her and I really enjoyed all the fun things we were doing together. It was so nice to finally have a companion again, and I cherished her company.

However, her non-chalant attitude towards her past kept resurfacing at the most inconvenient of times. At one point we were taking a romantic bath, and having a nice conversation about classic rock, and I mentioned that it seems that you never really here too much praise of the bass players. Then she blurted out ‘ I got with 2 bass players’ and before I had the chance to respond, she said ‘I can’t change the past, its part of who I am’, as if anticipating my response.Read More »We talked about whether we loved each other but there was no definitive answer from either one of us

I loved her for the beautiful person she was, but I felt that I was missing out on so much

I loved her for the beautiful person she was, but I felt that I was missing out on so much

Before I met my current GF of just over 4 months, I was single for over three years. I am 21, she is 24. I was in one long term relationship with someone I wasn’t really attracted to, but I couldn’t rid myself of her because of my own selfish insecurities – we shared all the same friends, we always hung out together, and we had very similar lifestyles. Finally things were ended once and for all, very painfully and slowly. She was a big part of my life. She recovered quickly, and instantly met a guy who she proceeded to date for over a year – I remained single. I felt such guilt that I told myself that I did not deserve anyone and that I the next person I did find would cheat on me or something and that was something I accepted.

After hanging out for a couple weeks and continuing with our casual sex, she asked me out

Three angry, lonely years passed. Many opportunities to meet and connect with great people had surfaced, but I never took them up and was always regretful afterwards. I always found ways to sabotage them, and then proceeded to kick myself. This was during what statistically was supposed to be my sexual peak, and I was constantly being bugged by friends, my ex, and even strangers that caught wind of my situation and would say things along the lines of ‘WTF is wrong with you – you are an attractive, nice guy – that long. ‘

I continued to be frustrated with it, but then one day I met my 2 attractive, female upstairs neighbors in the apartment I was living in. I didn’t do anything differently, but one of them pursued me. I was so flattered that my judgment was clouded. I was so exctied about finally seeing someone was interested in me. The casual relations continued, after all she was conveniently available. On the second or third time, she told me that she had slept with 22 guys, and I told her I had been with 1.Read More »I loved her for the beautiful person she was, but I felt that I was missing out on so much